So you have been told you’re an energy Vampire. Now what?
The negative connotation is simplistic at best and negligent at worst. Energy vampires are essential to recycling the negative energy in the world. Just because you can destroy does not mean you lack the ability to create. If you only use one or the other, the imbalance causes limitations to your body, mind and spirit that are totally unnecessary and in some cases detrimental to yourself and others.
I’ll tell you a little secret that I wish someone told me, you don’t have to live a life of love and light in order to make this world a better place. Guess what? Regardless of what people say, no one does and anyone that says so is living in a different reality. No one is perfect so you can stop thinking something is wrong with you because you experience negative emotions and energy. You can stop thinking something is wrong with you because you see the pain and suffering of a minority in a joke instead of laughing hysterically with the masses.
We need people like this in the world. We need people to reality check the imbalance of light workers who refuse to accept the shadows that they cast with their light. The funny thing about energy vampires is, they mirror what is around them. They are empathic. We like to give empaths a positive spin, but we forget that with empathic ability comes the energy vampire aspect. They go hand in hand. In order to empathize with others we must take their energy within us. This can be seen as a psychic attack, but what people fail to realize is, if you do not process and deal with the shadow that your light casts it will follow you. Energy vampires, are drawn to this shadow.
Energy vampires have a choice. They can choose to take your positive energy or your negative, they also get to choose how much they take. It is all about needs. In order to be in a relationship with an energy vampire, you have to be willing to give as much as they do. You also have to have clear communication and boundaries. Sounds like a pretty normal relationship between two people right? That is exactly what it is.
So for all of you who feel comfortable in the shadows, who turn from the light. You are not bad. You are a person. You get to make choices. You were not born bad. You are not defective. You do not deserve to be bound by others. You do not deserve to be ostracized by others. You are allowed to say you cannot do something. You are allowed to be sad. You are allowed to be mad. You are allowed to set boundaries. You are allowed to say no. You are allowed to be yourself even if that doesn’t please everyone.
This isn’t an easy path. It can lead to the end of life long friendships because gods forbid you have bad days. Some people who choose to live in a reality of strictly love and light cannot stand when other people shatter that reality. Find your people, the ones that build you up not tear you down. The ones that celebrate your weird and roll with it. You are worthy.
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